I am honoured to have been invited to address members of the Buddhist community serving in the Royal Navy, the British Army and the Royal Air Force on the occasion of your annual conference.I have always admired those who are prepared to act in the defence of others for their courage and determination.
In fact, it may surprise you to know that I think that monks and soldiers, sailors and airman have more in common than at first meet the eye. Strict discipline is important to us all, we all wear uniform and we rely on the companionship and support of our comrades.Although the public may think that physical strength is what is important, I believe that what makes a good soldier, sailor or airman, just as what makes a good monk is inner strength. And inner strength depends on having a firm positive motivation. The difference lies in whether ultimately you want to ensure others well being or whether you want to wish them harm.Naturally, there are some times when we need to take what on the surface appears to be harsh or tough action, but if our motivation is good is actually non-violent in nature. On the other hand if we use sweet words and gestures to deceive, exploit and take advantage of others, our conduct may appear agreeable, while we are actually engages in quite unacceptable violence.
The ultimate purpose of Buddhism is to serve and benefit humanity; therefore I believe that what is important for Buddhists is the contribution we can make to human society according to our own ideas and values. The key to overcome suffering and ensuring happiness is inner peace. If we have that we can face difficulties with calmness and reason, while our inner happiness remains undisturbed. The teachings of love, kindness and tolerance, the conduct of non-violence as I have explained above, and specially the Buddhist theory that all things are relative are a source of that inner peace.It is my prayer that all of you may be able to do your duty and fulfil your mission in due course when that is done to return to your homes and families.
Dalai Lama16 May, 2009.